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The Lovers (VI) is the sixth trump or Major Arcana card in most traditional Tarot decks. It is used in game playing as well as in divination.

Interpretation

In some traditions, The Lovers represents relationships and choices. Its appearance in a spread indicates some decision about an existing relationship, a temptation of the heart, or a choice of potential partners. Often an aspect of the Querant's life will have to be sacrificed; a bachelor(ette)'s lifestyle may be sacrificed and a relationship gained (or vice versa), or one potential partner may be chosen while another is turned down. Whatever the choice, it shouldn't be made lightly, as the ramifications will be lasting.
   The Lovers is associated with the star sign Gemini, and indeed is also known as The Twins in some decks. Other associations are with Air, Mercury, and the Hebrew letter ז (Zayin).
   A. E. Waite was a key figure in the development of modern Tarot interpretations. (Wood, 1998) However not all interpretations follow his theology. Please remember that all Tarot decks used for divination are interpreted up to personal experience and standards.
   Some frequent keywords used by tarot readers are:

Love relationship
- Union
- Passion
- Sexuality

Pleasure
- Humanism
- Desire
- Personal beliefs

Individual values
- Physical attraction
- Connection

Affinity
- Bonding
- Romance
- Heart Following the Marseille Tradition, also there are:

Choice
- Doubt
- Difficult decision
- Dilemma
- Temptation

Mythopoetic Approach

The Lovers represent the impulse that drives us out of the garden, towards adulthood. Sometimes, that impulse manifests as curiosity (Eve, Pandora, Psyche); sometimes it manifests as sexual desire (most horror and teen movies); sometimes it manifests as duty (a soldier heeding the call). Could even manifest as the intense desire to go on an adventure botany quest. The quest for the Other. Whatever it is, once we've stepped passed the threshold, there's no returning to the garden.
   The Lovers is associated through its cross sum (the sum of the digits) with The Devil, Key 15. He is often the source of the impulse, or that thing inside of us that responds to it. The Devil’s energy is absolutely necessary, absolutely deadly.
   The Lovers also represent raw desire. Buddha teaches us that all life is suffering, the root of suffering is desire, and that desire can be overcome. The Buddha provides one path back to the garden – or to a better garden.
   Hajo Banzhaf suggests that if the Major Arcana is seen as a map of the Sun’s circuit of the Sky, The Lovers is high noon. Consciousness at its fullest. Frequently, cards show the Sun in the position of noon. Two trees, bearing fruit and flame, the intoxication of the material world.
   When The Lovers appear in a spread, it typically draws the Querant’s attention to what ever impulse drove her from home. What ever impulse made him move out, reject the faith of the fathers, made him accept the call. That original impulse should be honored, but if it dominates the Querant’s life, it'll grow tiresome. The call must be renewed.
   It can signal an examination of the Querant’s relationship with the garden is needed, be it exile or absence. Sometimes, it can be useful to go beyond Eden and talk about other gardens: the bittersweet Kingdom of Logres built by Arthur to keep back the rising dark for a generation, the idyllic Hobbits’ Shire in The Lord of the Rings, or just a happy childhood. Look for misty eyes of memory, or bitterness at the lack of a past paradise.
   The Lovers are also a reminder that we need others to become fully human. Lovers, friends, adversaries –each one teaches us, each ones stretches us. Each can kill us. Each can break our hearts.

Alternative decks

In the Vikings Tarot this card shows Frigg with her golden sandals standing between the brothers Vili and Ve.

In the X/1999 Tarot version made by CLAMP, The Lovers is represented by Kotori Monou.Further Information

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